Be it a personality quirk, something they’re wearing, or just the way they look. What makes them instantly hot?
Throwing themselves at me sexually. If I’m not going to have to make a lot of effort for it the person gets way more attractive to me, even if they’re not someone I’d typically go for. Conversely I’ve lost interest in a lot of very attractive women when they made it clear they were playing hard to get or just weren’t very sexual in general.
I believe the term is “ecstatic consent”.
The ability to not give a fuck about what others think about them, showing people close to them that they care about them and tries to help out anyway that they can, showing appreciation when someone does something for them.
I see these qualities in my (guy) friend which is why I had a crush on him. Also he kinda looks like Leon Kennedy sooo…👀
You had me at Leon. Go get him! Be his Ada
I told him that I liked him more than a friend a couple months ago. Ended in a friend-zone 💀 . We both agreed that it’s best for us to be just friends because of timing. He works a lot and does school full time, so he’s not gonna be able to prioritize me. I (still) find him attractive, but he helped me dodge a bullet in saving me from another heartbreak.
Well in game Leon is the type to do that so it makes sense. Best to find out then to let it be
It is confidence. It is always always always confidence. Close the thread there’s your answer for everything.
But then you run into the dunning kruger effect. Way too many assholes and idiots with obscene amounts of it
It’s 2: Intelligent and kind
Badminton skills
What if they have Goodminton skills instead?
Squeaky trainers on a gym floor
Unapologetic intellectual curiosity! I absolutely love being around people who love learning new things and who get excited to find out more when they discover a new topic.
It’s one of the first qualities that really stood out when I first met my husband - in a University lecture with 1000 people, he just nonchalantly sat down in the frontmost row because that’s where he could hear the professor the best and ask questions. No shyness or awkwardness about it, which I found incredibly inspiring for some reason! I usually hid in one of the back rows because I was massively overthinking everything and afraid that the professor might call me out when he sees me not paying attention.… according to Wikipedia, body symmetry
Other qualities tend to rely on frequency of interaction and are not instant
This is like Nazi shit with “inherent attractiveness theories” or whatever bs imperialism
I’m attracted to women with a more traditionally masculine personality or presentation. The helpers/protectors. Or non-binary. Bonus points if their whole Look is to deliberately intimidate strangers.
TL;DR image basically this but in all black.
Is this what’s known as mommy issues?
Not in my case my family was good I’m just born fucked up.
Understanding and compassion. Kindness. I’ve been with enough women in my time to be able to definitively say that the HOTTEST woman in the universe yet a total removed would not be able to hold a candle to a homely kind hearted gal.
Being hot and horny does it for me.
Most people are going to say personality, but I am going to go with breast size.
A quote (or mis-quote) from “So I Married an Axe Murderer” https://youtu.be/W_ENWgPmXnY?t=134
The larger the personality the better!
Huge…tracts of land!
There’s no cheat code to get them to like you, dude.
Didn’t say it was for me
Of course, it’s for a friend
Belief in and support for Universal Basic Income.
Compassion for the vulnerable and weak.
Single straight man that works in child care. Let me tell you, single mom’s treat compassion like catnip. I keep them as far away from me outside of the school environment because me simply enjoying my job which naturally involves compassion is intoxicating to them.
Hard pass for me dating a single mom but if you are having a hard time as a straight single man dating (only perspective I can give advice on) is to be genuine and compassionate. Instant attraction for 99% of women looking for partners.
Ive become a bit of a cynic in this area and I think the women seeing your passion for child care and being a nice guy… They know they can wrap you around their fingers and get a lot of benefit from you.
Nice guys like yourself need to be very careful around todays women.
Woah, generalizations like this are rarely ever a good idea.
Toxic people mistake kindness for weakness and you just told on yourself, assuming everyone thinks the way you do.
Amazing analys doctor, but I think you may be seeing yourself in this rather than me…
Im not very toxic, just very honest about what I see. Even when its unpopular.
So. toxic, then, with no filter.
If you cant understand basic things, then sure. Very toxic. Lol.
I’m a lonely male so the answer is if they give me a modicum of attention and kindness.
Its this.
IDK about “lonely” exactly but I definitely dont get a lot of attention or kindness from people.
Now I think about it i dont offer much either but thats life i guess.
I’m a non-lonely male and my answer is basically the same.
Every drop of water makes the river, don’t forget you’re a part of the world, and you’re important, even if it doesn’t always feel that way.
Heyyyyyyy
