Sunshine (she/her)@lemmy.ca to Vegan CirclejerkEnglish · 2 months agoIt Happens Every Single Time!lemmy.caimagemessage-square20linkfedilinkarrow-up130
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minus-squareSasha [They/Them]@lemmy.blahaj.zonelinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up6·2 months agoYou know you can have objectively better values than someone without considering yourself better than them, right?
minus-squarejol@discuss.tchncs.delinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up3·2 months agoNo, I don’t know that. If I think my values are objectively better than others, in that regard I think I’m better than them. How is that not the case?
minus-squareTofu_Ninja@lemmy.dbzer0.comlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up3·edit-22 months agoHumility. I’m sure your values are lovely. Except maybe this one.
minus-squarejol@discuss.tchncs.delinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up2·2 months agoI guess you can pretend to be humble, but it’s still true.
minus-squareTofu_Ninja@lemmy.dbzer0.comlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up4·2 months agoI understand that everyone’s values come from somewhere. Does that upset you?
minus-squareSasha [They/Them]@lemmy.blahaj.zonelinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up1·2 months agoBy understanding that people are more than a list of values, they’re a collection of entirely valid life experiences which both informs and is guided by their values.
You know you can have objectively better values than someone without considering yourself better than them, right?
No, I don’t know that. If I think my values are objectively better than others, in that regard I think I’m better than them. How is that not the case?
Humility. I’m sure your values are lovely. Except maybe this one.
I guess you can pretend to be humble, but it’s still true.
I understand that everyone’s values come from somewhere. Does that upset you?
By understanding that people are more than a list of values, they’re a collection of entirely valid life experiences which both informs and is guided by their values.