Sunshine (she/her)@lemmy.ca to Vegan CirclejerkEnglish · 1 month agoIt Happens Every Single Time!lemmy.caimagemessage-square20fedilinkarrow-up130
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minus-squareSasha [They/Them]@lemmy.blahaj.zonelinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up6·1 month agoYou know you can have objectively better values than someone without considering yourself better than them, right?
minus-squarejol@discuss.tchncs.delinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up3·1 month agoNo, I don’t know that. If I think my values are objectively better than others, in that regard I think I’m better than them. How is that not the case?
minus-squareTofu_Ninja@lemmy.dbzer0.comlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up3·edit-21 month agoHumility. I’m sure your values are lovely. Except maybe this one.
minus-squarejol@discuss.tchncs.delinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up2·1 month agoI guess you can pretend to be humble, but it’s still true.
minus-squareTofu_Ninja@lemmy.dbzer0.comlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up4·1 month agoI understand that everyone’s values come from somewhere. Does that upset you?
minus-squareSasha [They/Them]@lemmy.blahaj.zonelinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up1·1 month agoBy understanding that people are more than a list of values, they’re a collection of entirely valid life experiences which both informs and is guided by their values.
You know you can have objectively better values than someone without considering yourself better than them, right?
No, I don’t know that. If I think my values are objectively better than others, in that regard I think I’m better than them. How is that not the case?
Humility. I’m sure your values are lovely. Except maybe this one.
I guess you can pretend to be humble, but it’s still true.
I understand that everyone’s values come from somewhere. Does that upset you?
By understanding that people are more than a list of values, they’re a collection of entirely valid life experiences which both informs and is guided by their values.