Why I’m always stuck with the smelly mean carnists.

  • AquaOP
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    1 year ago

    Non-vegans reacting to this:

  • ButtBidet [he/him]@hexbear.net
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    1 year ago

    You gotta do your part and convince a non vegan you’re dating to transition. Make it one of the top points you’re looking for.

    Sorry if it’s body shaming, but the most conventionally attractive carnist is grotesque in my eyes.

    • Nora@lemmy.ml
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      1 year ago

      I only date vegans. It’s pretty risky to start dating someone and then have an assumption that they’ll turn vegan eventually.

      Plus kissing mouth with dead body parts in it. Fucking blegh. 🤢🤮

      All that being said though, I am getting pretty desperate. Almost enough to start trying to date carnies. They would have to be really based like enough that they would seem like they would be willing to go vegan.

      Life is a fuck.

      • ButtBidet [he/him]@hexbear.net
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        1 year ago

        I guess I was lucky. When I was dating, I was pretty upfront that a long term relationship wouldn’t happen unless some transition to veganism happened. Lots of people hated the idea and bailed. It ended up helping demonstrate some red flags that weren’t obvious.

        My vegan partner and I have been together for ten years. She’s been vegan for 8. I am grateful.

        • Nora@lemmy.ml
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          1 year ago

          Would you be upfront in your profile, or was it just after you met them a few times? I guess I could do something like this, its better than not using the non-vegan dating apps at all.