having to stop eating meat is fuarking hard ngl tbh

  • dvb@lemmy.ml
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    1 month ago

    I can’t give universal advice, I can only tell you what has worked for me. Every person is unique.

    Expectations: I think you have to free yourself from being able to become a vegan in one day. The whole thing is a transition that can take many months. You try to find animal-free alternatives step by step and replace them bit by bit. At some point you get used to it and can’t imagine anything else.

    Motivation: I watched the worst and cruelest documentaries on animal exploitation/suffering that I could find. I cried a lot and still forced myself to finish watching them. This cemented my decision to become a vegan and stay vegan. I also talk to other vegans whenever possible, which also helps a lot.

    Food: For example, I don’t enjoy cooking complicated dishes and keep it simple, so it’s easier for me to motivate myself to cook something quickly. Here are a few examples of what I often cook: salad with garlic bread, beans with garlic and onions, broccoli casserole with vegan cheese, Brussels sprouts with potatoes, rice with beans, pasta with tomato sauce, etc. Between meals I eat bread with hummus, tomatoes, peppers, cucumber, jam or lots of fruit such as apples, pears, grapes, peaches, apricots, depending on the season and nuts. If I absolutely can’t bring myself to cook, then I order vegan delivery food or make vegan ready meals. But I try to avoid that because they are often unhealthier and more expensive.

    Clothing and other goods: It’s quite a lot of work to research every purchase to see if what you want to buy is really vegan. There are vegan labels that are helpful, but it’s still a lot of work sometimes. Depending on where you live, there may also be stores that specialize in vegan products. This means you don’t have to do all the reseach by yourself. I try to consume less, repair broken things and generally avoid products that can’t be repaired. Second-hand is also often a good idea.

    Limits: It’s okay to have limits. Nobody is perfect. It’s better to avoid 98% animal suffering than not at all. Drugs/medicines, for example, are unfortunately the line I draw, as there is often no choice of animal-free alternatives. So sometimes I only have the choice of avoiding medication altogether and then staying ill. I very much hope that this will improve in the future and that more animal-free medicines will be available.