It happens more often than expected… 👀

  • GeeDubHayduke@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    1 day ago

    It may not have been a verbal demand but they’ve absolutely told you that something is wrong.

    Devil’s advocate: perhaps. But, then all you know is something is wrong, not what. And when asking clarifying questions, like, oh say “what’s wrong?” makes the situation worse? Guess i should paid more attention in Mind Reading at Hogwarts…

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      oh say “what’s wrong?” makes the situation worse? Guess i should paid more attention in Mind Reading at Hogwarts…

      I don’t think this is a productive way to think of your partner. I also don’t think you’ve read my comment replies.

      If you’re having trouble communicating with your partner, and you get defensive about it, you’re going to have bigger problems than just “mind reading” as you call it.