Reminder: there is no such thing as the paradox of tolerance.

The rules of tolerance only apply to the people who abide by them.

Therefore, you are tolerant of tolerant people if you abide by the rules of tolerance. You are intolerant of intolerant people if you abide by the rules of tolerance.

It is very straightforward, the only pathway to paradox is from a lack of lexical understanding of the rules of tolerance.