True. It is plausible. At the same time I have to think that if the human race hasn’t evolved to factor cooperation in tribes in most cases, we wouldn’t be here discussing this.
True. It is plausible. At the same time I have to think that if the human race hasn’t evolved to factor cooperation in tribes in most cases, we wouldn’t be here discussing this.
Inflation.
Believe it or not, jail.
I can totally relate. Been there many times. Kind of there now to a lesser degree (i.e. not having meltdowns but still so overwhelmed I am battling depression for the umpteenth billionth time and am really discouraged).
Things that help me:
Regular exercise even if light exercise, like walking around the block for 10-30 min. The more I do this per week the better off I am.
Regular sleep; I’m way more mentally tough when rested. I’m a fragile mess if I am too tired plus stressed.
Writing a list. The pile usually looks and feels infinite in my head but finite and thus smaller on paper.
Still, list can be overwhelming. When things are really bad, make three lists:
And prune any unnecessary items.
E.g. “I really want to finish that one project… But you know what? If I throw in the towel, officially quit, toss it in the bin and never think about it again it is a burden lifted so… fuck it, bye project!”
I tend to overcommit, too, so sometimes it is better to call the friend and just be honest and say it probably won’t get done ever. I get really stressed and guilty when I have favors hanging over my head that I know I won’t have time for.
I’ve got two of those hanging over my head now.
If can help to have a friend help prioritize your list. They can help you be brutal in pruning, and objectively determine what is most urgent.
Then… focus on one super urgent thing at a time.
Helps me to think through the first most basic steps to get started on a scary thing that I want to put off. Instead of trying to climb a mountain, it helps to think of the first steps on the trail, the first obstacle. I mean basic as in, “ok first I need a pencil, then paper” – that level of basic. Once I get started i can keep rolling. It’s all about getting over the emotional hurdle associated with starting…
Also helps to not expect too much of myself.
One accomplishment is all I can muster, most days.
Other days just doing basic hygiene and some days just getting out of bed is an accomplishment.
Occasionally when stars align or I’m not stressed and overwhelmed I can knock out several things.
Of course right now I feel like giving up… So that’s probably not expecting enough lol.
Maybe it would help to have a mutual accountability buddy, where you encourage each other and report progress. That can be motivating in a good way.
There’s a better candidate than Trump that I just flushed down the shitter this morning.
I mean, you can even say or think Trump would be better, too, if you want; it’s a free country^1. But, also, I would ridicule you because you’re deluded.
1 assumes you live in a free country; if in the USA, terms and conditions apply.
I kind of think if they got punched in the fucking face on a regular basis maybe we would see a lot less of them and their evil bullshit.
As far as I know local bottlers have been a thing for a long time yes. I remember TV ads for soda with a tack on slogan at the end from the bottling company. “Bottled by the good guys at Kalil”
Meanwhile, the wife is just nosy.
Good summary. Apparently even the Democratic judges are skeptical of upholding the Colorado Supreme Court decision.
Unless you’re in IT, apparently? Idk.
Relatedly, my conspiracy theory is that the spate of recent layoffs are coordinated pushback against all the strikes and unionizing as well as pushback against RTO etc. Just a wild idea I had… May be total horseshit, idk.
On the other hand, we have seen collusion in the past within some sectors (e.g., price fixing, no poach agreements, wage fixing), and antitrust violations often go unpunished or weakly penalized, corporate leadership is strongly driven by profit often to the exclusion of ethics and at the expense of all else. And employee compensation is a significant part of most company budgets. So, I think my wild idea is at least somewhat plausible.
That treatment sucks too especially for kids. What was the purpose? Retribution?
I can probably manage PQ (potato quality)
I don’t think anyone else has said this, so I shall.
What in the actual fuck.
Same in Denver. It has never been that clear ever. That’s what I guess it could be like if we actually started to fight greenhouse gases for real.
And then animals started being seen a lot more around here.
Sigh
“When he reached the New World, Cortezh burned hish ships. Ash a reshult hish men were well motivated.” —Capt. Ramius, played by Sean Connery in The Hunt for Red October