From a person who has been divorced once, and seen other friends get divorced. it’s not so much about choosing carefully, it’s about communication when the relationship gets tough or boring (and ideally before you get there). Finding the right person is the easy part, staying in love and staying happy - that’s the difficult part
You could argue that taking care to communicate openly and honestly is a choice, and that choosing someone able and willing to do that is a HUGE part of “finding the right person” 🤷🏻
But yeah, “communication is key” didn’t become a cliché because it ISN’T true heh
All this talk about lack of communication to explain five marriages, without one person pointing out that some people will CHEAT at every single opportunity.
It’s the likely explanation for at least some of those divorces.
Yeah I’d guess she either has unreasonable expectations, is a terrible communicator, or just a hot mess in general. Had a cousin like this. She was probably all three.
Yeah, jokes about marriage are perfectly fine for a person with 5 marriages. If they don’t like it, they can get married less.
If you like marriages so much, then WHY DON’T YOU MARRY EM???
Or at least choose more carefully the next time 🤷🏻
Errmm. At 5 marriages you gotta start thinking maybe it’s you and not necessarily the choices you’re making.
¿Por que no los dos? 🤷🏻
No espeako bravado encumpliato biznatch
From a person who has been divorced once, and seen other friends get divorced. it’s not so much about choosing carefully, it’s about communication when the relationship gets tough or boring (and ideally before you get there). Finding the right person is the easy part, staying in love and staying happy - that’s the difficult part
You could argue that taking care to communicate openly and honestly is a choice, and that choosing someone able and willing to do that is a HUGE part of “finding the right person” 🤷🏻
But yeah, “communication is key” didn’t become a cliché because it ISN’T true heh
If I had to guess she’s hot and a psycho 😂
Oh no im on gen x lemmy again
This is what I wish my mom was
All this talk about lack of communication to explain five marriages, without one person pointing out that some people will CHEAT at every single opportunity.
It’s the likely explanation for at least some of those divorces.
Yeah I’d guess she either has unreasonable expectations, is a terrible communicator, or just a hot mess in general. Had a cousin like this. She was probably all three.
I’ll I’d be careful if I were you
If you can choose, why don’t you choose?
No