Aragorn loved her at first sight in his 20s but she didn’t love him until he was 49 and they didn’t marry until he was in his late 80s.
“And thus it was that Arwen first beheld him again after their long parting; and as he came walking towards her under the trees of Caras Galadhon laden with flowers of gold, her choice was made and her doom appointed.”
So, less of a cradle robber and more of a groomer.
Just double checked, and he was raised by the elves from an even younger age, but he didn’t meet Arwen until he was 20.
Aragorn loved her at first sight in his 20s but she didn’t love him until he was 49 and they didn’t marry until he was in his late 80s.
So, less of a cradle robber and more of a groomer.
Phew, that’s much better.
Really playing the long game there.