[the subreddit, not lemmy, btw]
the words were not the n-word… see below….

racial slurs here

“removed” and “koongaroo”

if it wasn’t written by people claiming to be black, it would be indistinguishable from standard racism….
my money is on, fake as fuck and modded by actual white racists.
anyways, permanent ban, no explanation, no response to questions about the ban.
i had my doubts before, but now i’m sure.

  • xor@lemmy.dbzer0.comOPEnglish
    10·
    3 days ago

    last post didn’t have the warning….

    but you’re right, reddit is a fractal of garbage, and why i don’t use it much anymore.

    smaller subs can still be cool though….

    • FistingEnthusiast@lemmynsfw.comEnglish
      8·
      3 days ago

      I got permanently banned across my accounts for saying “bad bot” to a nazi

      I’m device blocked now

      It’s just not worth hanging on to

      Digg is coming back, so maybe that’s an option

      • Draconic NEO@lemmy.dbzer0.com
        2·
        1 day ago

        I’m device blocked now

        This only applies if you use their shitty app, anything else uses a combo of cookies + Fingerprint and IP. Anyone who tells you otherwise is lying to scare you out of or dissuade ban evasion. Use Tor or Mullvad Browser with a proxy and you cripple most of their automated checks.

        • FistingEnthusiast@lemmynsfw.comEnglish
          2·
          24 hours ago

          I’m a Luddite

          I don’t even have an internet connection at home

          I have no clue how to do any of that stuff

          I definitely appreciate the advice though!

          • Draconic NEO@lemmy.dbzer0.com
            3·
            23 hours ago

            That makes sense. I just wanted to share that piece of info since it’s a common bit of misinformation that people share around without realizing (and also Reddit mods unfortunately share around intentionally).

            • FistingEnthusiast@lemmynsfw.comEnglish
              2·
              23 hours ago

              Thanks!

              One day I might be able to work it all out

              I haven’t bothered trying to work around things, because what I post is pretty distinctive…

          • xor@lemmy.dbzer0.comOPEnglish
            5·
            3 days ago

            i don’t want to trade one corporate social media for another… i believe in decentralized but lemmy does have a ways to go…
            also, your username makes me want to not do anything you say

                • southsamurai@sh.itjust.works
                  5·
                  3 days ago

                  Nah, believe it or not, when fisting is done right, there’s no damage done. To the contrary, it is supposedly enjoyable.

                  Both vaginas and anuses are remarkably elastic and resilient. Once adequate lubrication is present, it’s just a matter of getting the relevant muscles to relax. While accidents can happen, and there’s always going to be people that don’t know or don’t care about doing things safely, the practice itself doesn’t have to be damaging. The folks that are enthusiasts about it aren’t setting out to damage their partners at all.

                  Mind you, sexual sadists exist, and that is not the same thing as people into bdsm, though some of the real sadists do use the bdsm community as a cover.

                  It’s this hole thing.

                  Sorry, had to do that bit, it popped in my head and wouldn’t be removed by anything less than a giant fist writing it out.

                  Back to serious though, it ain’t my thing at all, especially to try and be the receiver, which is a hard no. But, it isn’t a big deal either. I’ve fisted a partner before, at her request. Didn’t do any damage at all, and I have to wear xxl exam gloves and can palm a basketball. If I can get these ham hands of mine up a lady’s cooter without anything other than appreciative sounds, anyone could.