[the subreddit, not lemmy, btw]
the words were not the n-word… see below….

racial slurs here

“removed” and “koongaroo”

if it wasn’t written by people claiming to be black, it would be indistinguishable from standard racism….
my money is on, fake as fuck and modded by actual white racists.
anyways, permanent ban, no explanation, no response to questions about the ban.
i had my doubts before, but now i’m sure.

    • southsamurai@sh.itjust.works
      5·
      2 days ago

      Nah, believe it or not, when fisting is done right, there’s no damage done. To the contrary, it is supposedly enjoyable.

      Both vaginas and anuses are remarkably elastic and resilient. Once adequate lubrication is present, it’s just a matter of getting the relevant muscles to relax. While accidents can happen, and there’s always going to be people that don’t know or don’t care about doing things safely, the practice itself doesn’t have to be damaging. The folks that are enthusiasts about it aren’t setting out to damage their partners at all.

      Mind you, sexual sadists exist, and that is not the same thing as people into bdsm, though some of the real sadists do use the bdsm community as a cover.

      It’s this hole thing.

      Sorry, had to do that bit, it popped in my head and wouldn’t be removed by anything less than a giant fist writing it out.

      Back to serious though, it ain’t my thing at all, especially to try and be the receiver, which is a hard no. But, it isn’t a big deal either. I’ve fisted a partner before, at her request. Didn’t do any damage at all, and I have to wear xxl exam gloves and can palm a basketball. If I can get these ham hands of mine up a lady’s cooter without anything other than appreciative sounds, anyone could.