Whatever “too long” means to you. What eventually helped to lessen the pain?

  • yesman@lemmy.world
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    13 hours ago

    Why does grief need a time-limit? What’s something you were grateful for for “too long”?

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      13 hours ago

      Grief doesn’t need a time limit, but if you wanted to stop grieving and you couldn’t, then I would say that you were grieving too long in the end.

    • raynethackery@lemmy.world
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      I think it depends on the nature of the thing you grieved. I’m still grieving the loss of my mother in 2010. It doesn’t hit me that often but sometimes I still cry. Now, grieving something like the loss of youth or an image of yourself is different. I grieved the loss of my hair but then I got over it.