Hey there

I sincerely hope all me comrades are having a nice day

I’ve been in a somewhat not amazing situation for quite some time (not best mentally, in transitioning and unemployed again), thought I’d ramble a bit and ask for a little advice. I despise almost every job I get and years of constant stress are ruining my physical and mental health to the point where I struggle to keep on going at all. I don’t want money from anyone here but I’m trying to figure out how I could fill my budget before I stabilize a bit more and will be able to keep a job which should happen later in the summer.

A friend suggested a free psychological counseling available here where I live which might be a good start.

I’m getting a little bit of income that pays for ~40% of my room rent and receive some help from the family (mostly food). I generally stick to intermittent fasting and get ready to sell some music gear I don’t use much. I used to make some small money doing side gigs (physical labor) or constructing a tiny website here and there but I’m not an experienced developer and it shows so can’t do it professionally. I found learning python and c++ fun btw (clears my head from worries (: ) but it seems I have to sort out adhd stuff to think about rebranding seriously.

Generally if anyone has any ideas how I could earn or save some extra cash to deal with a small crisis, I’d be very happy to read some advice.

Hugs

  • yet_another_commie@lemmygrad.ml
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    5 days ago

    I’d avoid internment fasting. Instead, it’s better to eat something more often but cheaper. My cheapest diet plan is basically beans, rice, carrots and onions with whatever greens I can get + a few more stuff. You may look up what cheapest veggies your area (hopefully) has unless you’re in Greenland.

    If you want to become a dev, you should look for more webby things like Python and JS. I don’t think C++ is helpful for junior jobs

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      4 days ago

      My digestive system is very picky and I find it easier to schedule a couple hours during the day when I can risk some mild discomfort or sluggishness rather than snack all day and feel so-so all the time (: but rice, veggies and unprocessed meat / small amount of diary is generally safe.

      Thanks for the advice. I will stick to webby things for now

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      5 days ago

      goto a local asian or middle east grocer - humus, za’tar and white wine vinegar - mix with red chilli flakes, salt and garlic to preference.

      I eat it with a 6 pack of pitta breads that I steam in a toastie machine/tabletop grill by dripping some water over the top - works out to be about a week straight of healthy lunches for about £3-4 (granted a bit more if you need to buy some of the other bits but it gets cheaper to reload once you do)