• SuperSpruce@lemmy.zip
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    24 days ago

    This literally just happened to me wtf. We had so much in common and we went on a great first date, but then I asked her to be my Valentine and she told me there wasn’t “romantic physical chemistry” between us.

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      24 days ago

      I assume you’re under like 20 years old? Maybe even under 18? Literally shrug it off and don’t even give it a 2nd thought. It’s like dying the first time in a game and only losing 10 seconds of gameplay. It literally doesn’t matter whatsoever, you just started the game and are learning how to play.

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        24 days ago

        I’m 21, it’s a bit later in the game than you thought. I haven’t had much experience with dating and it’s definitely holding me back.

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          24 days ago

          I met my wife at 28 and it took us 7 years to get married. You have sooo much time.

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      24 days ago

      That’s a win.

      Someone being honest and up front is always a good thing.

      Now, you don’t have to wonder, you don’t have to put energy into romance that isn’t there, and once you move past the emotions of the rejection, you can possibly still have a friend.

      This is not a bad thing, it just hurts.

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      24 days ago

      Look up Hoe_math on YouTube. Strip away the layer of red pillish frustration and watch objectively. His latest zones version video is onto something that women have two separate sets of criteria to judge men: “healthy and nice” and “macho power”. You need to up your macho power factors to be considered attractive. Seriously, when they say they need to find a nicer guy, they don’t even consider the guys that aren’t keeping up the macho.

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        24 days ago

        Strip away the layer of red pillish frustration

        proceeds to describe a paragraph of the most incel shit I’ve ever heard, generalizing 4 billion people

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