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Cake day: June 16th, 2026

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  • I think one of the first ways is to show up. Like if a place is hosting a drag show, recognize that they’ve lost customers, so now you need to show up for the drag shows AND during regular hours.

    If its somewhere you want to be a third space, then be friendly. Engage in conversation. If you’ve been going for a while, welcome new people to the space.

    Third spaces don’t have to be businesses, they can be parks, libraries, and the likes. Those are a bit easier to start your community in. Make a post on a local Facebook page, “I’m going to be at this park doing this. Every Sunday at 1PM, join me.” Then show up. The first event will likely only have 2 or 3 people show up. That’s normal. Keep it up, be consistent, and don’t get down when no one shows up, do it again. People will come when they realize they’ve missed out. Make sure people know they missed out, take pictures, make it look busy.

    Lastly, I think non-profits, like animal shelters, political organizations, etc. need to be opening reasons for people to visit them. Animal shelters, I think should open pet stores or have a space for dog training - so that local dog owners can meet other dog owners and raise their dogs better. Political parties should have bars/coffee shops so that people have a social third space to be, talk, and advance their party.


  • Thank you for the clarification in the spoiler. It makes your argument way stronger.

    We’ve lost organizational power in this country because the pedophile class has been destroying even slightly liberal third spaces. Christian coffee shops talks politics everyday, no one bats an eye. But god forbid a business support a queer person, then everyone will boycott that business because theyre doing politics.

    Find your local third spaces that kinda support you, and build a community of spenders and force the third space to support you more.


  • You’re right that grassroots is the answer. But voting is still part of the solution.

    We’re needing broad change, everywhere. Don’t want Flock in your neighborhood? City council. Don’t want a data center in your neighborhood? City council.

    City council is a body of what 7 people? That can immediately impact your daily life. If your town is banning Flock, and data centers, and doing a good job, then your neighboring towns will too.

    And it really doesn’t take that many people to sway the outcome of a city council election.

    But here’s where it gets scary: the pedophile elite has been destroying liberal leaning 3rd spaces for the past 10 or more years, while propping up right wing third spaces. Every single Christian coffee shop is a breeding ground for Nazism. The challenge in getting a city council that works for you, is creating a community that works for you.

    And every single person that goes to the Christian coffee shop will stop supporting the local business that supports the queer community, “because they don’t do politics.”

    Vote from the ground up. Promote local leaders. And while you’re voting for them, vote in a way that will at least delay fascism till your local leader has the experience to compete with the shitheads like Schumer.






  • This shit, right here, is the exact underwear I’ve been wearing since 2014. Without David Archy, I wouldn’t have been able to run 3 marathons, or do a lot of stuff.

    I started 2014 with briefs. Then the boys got sweaty. That led to cheeseballs. I realized that the boys needed to breathe a bit more.

    So I switched to boxers. I did a lot of walking and a lot of stairs, in boots. One day, I was going down the stairs and I took a step and a sharp pain shot up my nuts.

    Went to the doctor, he said I needed more support. I told him my issue with briefs and he said to look for a natural fiber.

    So I started researching natural fibers, and micro-modal is one of the best. It’s wicking, cooling, etc, but still cotton. You won’t get no cheese balls with it.

    But I was still scared of the compression that happens with briefs.

    Eventually, I found David Archy’s. They’ve got a sack for your sack that keeps em separated. Woah. Gotta keep em seperated.

    I slapped these bad boys on and have been wearing them ever since:

    https://davidarchy.com/products/david-archy-mens-dual-pouch-underwear-micro-modal-trunks-separate-pouches-with-fly-4-pack

    In terms of buy it for life, it’s probably not it. But I have ordered new underwear from David Archy’s about once every 4 years. And for underwear, I think that’s pretty good. I’m sure if I didn’t shove absolutely everything in the washer, it might hold up even better. But I’m lazy.

    I feel like the sizing runs a bit larger, but I haven’t worn any other brand of underwear since 2014, so I don’t know if that’s actually true. But you get a tight fit and your partner will be like, “dayum.”

    Edit: sorry, I didn’t see what community this was at first. I don’t think this is an EU brand. But I would look for micro modal, and a sack for your sack (which seems to be called pouch underwear). I did a look, there are a few EU brands that sell pouch, I didn’t see any that separate the boys from the shaft though, with DA does.