If you’re so paranoid of your relatives, maybe cut contact or get some therapy

It’s just digital files, any police department can release body cam footage quickly. They just don’t want to.

What’s a tortuguita?

The domain is pretty important to Lemmy. If you lose control of it, your instance is effectively dead since the federation will not recognize your traffic until you get the domain back. There’s no way to change the domain of an instance so you’d have to start from scratch.