• rab@lemmy.ca
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    6 个月前

    Stop body shaming

    I’ll never stop calling you fuckers out on it

    • TrickDacy@lemmy.world
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      6 个月前

      It’s a joke. And it’s metaphorical more than anything else. I have no desire to care about the size of anyone’s penis. The idea is that they are compensating for something, and those dudes are the ones who actually do care about that shit

      In the same vein, things can “suck dick” without it mattering who sucks dick and any value judgments were placed on that in the past. It’s an expression.

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            6 个月前

            I read it, but I just don’t know how to reply to your mental gymnastics

            In the same vein, things can “suck dick” without it mattering who sucks dick and any value judgments were placed on that in the past. It’s an expression.

            How is this the same vein as making fun of someone’s appearance? You have a choice to suck dick lmao. It feels so stupid to even type this out, that’s why I didn’t take the bait

            So what situations is it acceptable to make fun of how women look if this is so nuanced?

            • TrickDacy@lemmy.world
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              6 个月前

              …I never said there was nuance. It’s pretty simple. If someone chooses to be a shithead you can use their insecurities against them.

    • madcaesar@lemmy.world
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      6 个月前

      Comments like this is what turns regular people “off” of the left.

      It’s a fucking joke, not everything needs white knighting.

    • SidewaysHighways@lemmy.world
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      6 个月前

      Honestly the older I get I kinda agree. Like the same as something being gay in place of lame.

      But gosh it does pack a punch. What is another thing we could say that summarizes what we’re trying to get across so succinctly without having to act like we have a psychology degree?

      • negativeyoda@lemmy.world
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        6 个月前

        It’s only body shaming is they care.

        Speaking as an Asian in a honky dong world: even if I gave a shit there’s nothing I can do about it. Shame away, kings

        • flicker@lemmy.world
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          6 个月前

          Couple things super quick. 1) nothing screams “I don’t care” like fighting someone for several lengthy replies and

          1. the insecurity about your race is gonna turn women off way more than your size.
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            6 个月前

            When did I ever say only femmes are tasting my lumpia? C’mon, homie. My diminutive oriental dingus is less lonely than you think.

            I’ve never had a problem with my race. Reading your weird rebuttal makes me feel downright chauvanistic. 2 quips is “several lengthy replies” if you’re not genetically predisposed to be good at math, i guess

            • flicker@lemmy.world
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              6 个月前

              Bruh I got you and rab mixed up. This is why I try not to comment once my ADHD meds wear off.