Agent641@lemmy.world to Comic Strips@lemmy.world · 11 months agoWhats the worst that could happen?lemmy.worldimagemessage-square19fedilinkarrow-up13
arrow-up13imageWhats the worst that could happen?lemmy.worldAgent641@lemmy.world to Comic Strips@lemmy.world · 11 months agomessage-square19fedilink
minus-squareNythos@sh.itjust.workslinkfedilinkarrow-up2·11 months agoSimply asking someone for their number is not harassment. Repeatedly asking for someone’s number after being told no is. There isn’t any nuance to this situation.
minus-squarequindraco@lemm.eelinkfedilinkarrow-up1·11 months agoTelling someone they’re beautiful when they think you’re gross is creepy/harassment.
minus-squaredfc09@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up1·11 months ago“when they think you’re gross” How can I know if someone thinks I’m gross if I haven’t spoken to them yet? I should just assume I’m gross, always?
minus-squarequindraco@lemm.eelinkfedilinkarrow-up1·11 months agoThat’s the fun part, you can’t. Don’t assume they think you’re gross, but do remember that you don’t know what they think.
minus-squareAVincentInSpace@pawb.sociallinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up1·edit-211 months agoBut if I tell them they’re beautiful and it turns out they think I’m gross I could go to prison for harassment! Am I really just supposed to roll the dice like that?
minus-squarequindraco@lemm.eelinkfedilinkarrow-up0·edit-210 months agoHarassment isn’t a crime, so you’re probably safe from prison.
minus-squareThorny_Insight@lemm.eelinkfedilinkarrow-up0·11 months agoIt’s okay to talk to women if you’re a male model but stay the fuck away if you aren’t. Got it.
minus-squarequindraco@lemm.eelinkfedilinkarrow-up0·edit-211 months agoOr a female model. I’m certainly not here to discourage lesbians!
minus-squareKaboom@reddthat.comlinkfedilinkarrow-up0·11 months agoThats how you go through life as a virgin.
Simply asking someone for their number is not harassment.
Repeatedly asking for someone’s number after being told no is.
There isn’t any nuance to this situation.
Telling someone they’re beautiful when they think you’re gross is creepy/harassment.
“when they think you’re gross”
How can I know if someone thinks I’m gross if I haven’t spoken to them yet? I should just assume I’m gross, always?
That’s the fun part, you can’t. Don’t assume they think you’re gross, but do remember that you don’t know what they think.
But if I tell them they’re beautiful and it turns out they think I’m gross I could go to prison for harassment! Am I really just supposed to roll the dice like that?
Harassment isn’t a crime, so you’re probably safe from prison.
Wrong, incel.
It’s okay to talk to women if you’re a male model but stay the fuck away if you aren’t. Got it.
Or a female model. I’m certainly not here to discourage lesbians!
Thats how you go through life as a virgin.