• rottingleaf@lemmy.worldBanned
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    And, again, why are you listing other ways to insult people, as if they are fine when they’re not?

    God, are you dense.

    Life is a rarely a zero-sum exchange, and quite often both sides aren’t perfect people. Just because someone slapped you after you called them a slur doesn’t mean you’re now in the right because they escalated to physical violence.

    You even write that yourself. When someone is violating your private space or just attacking you on the street because they don’t like you for whatever reason (autistic people get a lot of that) and they are a humiliated good-for-nothing creature with no other ways to reinforce their self-confidence, you might say a lot of things including slurs to get rid of them, and be right.

    Like I fundamentally am having trouble relating to you on this. I can’t tell if your mental is that fucked, if you are terrible at explaining something I’m missing, or if you’re trying to troll. I’ve come across differences in opinions, based on severity and direction. It feels like we’re not using the same system.

    No, you are trying to play intelligent refusing to admit you get a very simple mechanism.

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      4 months ago

      Aight, we’re done. Your social logic works in a way I am uninterested in interfacing with and your capacity to misinterpret simple scenarios has made the outlook of you developing nuance, unfavorable.

      Have fun calling angry people slurs.

      Edit: I just had to add that the whole thought process is so fundamentally flawed. Why would you double-down on using inflammatory language like slurs that you’ve noted made them act more aggressively to you, if your goal is purported to get them to leave? They name-drop autism but I ain’t never seen someone so divorced from understanding the cause and effects of social levers before.

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        the cause and effects of social levers before.

        I don’t use social levers here and I am not interested in them unless that’s the only thing the interaction is about.

        You are not becoming a more valuable human by being more social, and I don’t care about quantity in arguments.

        The conversation is about being right and wrong, not about social levers. Nobody was trying to gain your respect or otherwise socialize with you anyway. Would be weird.