Maybe I just come across really aggressively or something and I’m completely oblivious to it

You were definitely the aggressor in this situation, yes.

This was the instigating comment.

Have a read from the start until that comment, and I’m sure you can tell the mood switch you brought to the table with that comment.

I’m not blaming you. Sometimes we read into things. Interpret things that aren’t being said. Maybe that’s what happened to you here. Sometimes it happens.

❤️ I’d go back and apologize to that person, for calling them illiterate and stupid etc.

Have a good one, buddy!