I’d only use sshfs if there’s no other alternative. Like if you had to copy over a slow internet link and sync wasn’t available.

NFS is fine for local network filesystems. I use it everywhere and it’s great. Learn to use autos and NFS is just automatic everywhere you need it.

Your FBI agent has been assigned to you. His name is Jeff.

Big lasagna and some flowers and emphasize that they’re for her. Tell her that you are a good shoulder to cry on if she needs it. Call her at home after a week and maybe after 2 weeks and say that you’re just checking that she’s ok.

Not free for all os’s though.