Also poly, and if I’d been dating a previously monogamous-only person for a month, I would definitely check in with them before hooking up with someone.

I mean, this situation also wouldn’t come up to begin with, because we would have discussed boundaries and communicated expectations when we started dating. Because while the above is how I handle things, literally everyone is different.

I don’t think it’s anyone’s fault, but I think there was a definite lack of communication, on both sides. Ambiguity leads to getting hurt.

Talk talk talk, folks, tell people what you need and expect, and make sure they are on the same page (and vice versa!!). And if different pages, see if you can come to an arrangement before feelings get hurt.

Some people do feel lonely. Not everyone is you.

Me too, she was such a nice presence here.

Clothes only accomplish what the wearer intends them to. Telling a stranger what is appropriate for them to wear in and out of the house is wild, and borderline harmful.

I really don’t think this is appropriate. I’m femme and wear nerdy tshirts all the time. You do not make that distinction, the wearer does.

Please don’t give advice that isn’t asked for.

It’s a very valid thing to ask. <3 And absolutely not weird.

Jean shorts are best shorts.

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Or trauma, depression, etc, etc. We should really stop diagnosing people and just suggest mental health support from a professional when something is wrong.

Sincerely - a person with cptsd, who has been constantly misdiagnosed with autism and adhd by the community (I have neither, and it was harmful to think that was my problem).

My week was long but had good moments!

I went to the forest with a friend and walked a lot. Another day went to a local farm market and got some delicious honey. And even though I’m incredibly depressed and sad, I still managed to clean my apartment! I just listened to music and got angry and cried while I did it :D

This is exactly the feeling. Went through a tornado when I lived in the midwest. It hit two streets over, just missing us. The sirens were going off but we were teenagers and still hanging out on the couch, parents were out. There were a ton of storms growing up where the sirens went off so we were a little desensitized.

Suddenly just knew it was time to go, something was here. Don’t know how else to describe it, the air changes, it’s like the vibrations change in the wind, or a sound that’s too deep to hear. Can’t say exactly, but I still remember the feeling of move now. We all just bolted at the same time and ran to the basement.

Love this for you ❤️❤️❤️

It’s called Metalhead, from Black Mirror (you could have also just asked, instead of this comment, would have gladly said so).

I forgot how horrifying this episode was. Part of me wants to rewatch, part of me thinks it’s too close to our current reality.

Aww congratulations! I’m glad it went well, even if it’s still complicated. ❤️

I mean, avocados are super healthy, I eat a lot of them 😄

My boobs definitely get bigger after a few more kilos!

Heyy welcome ❤️

It’s a server issue I believe, I get the same thing on desktop or mobile web or app (voyager).