i am non-binary transfem and my living area is usually messy but nowhere near like a dumpster. however, i do have some bad habits from having ADHD and also never being told to clean as a kid because my mother was an obsessive house cleaner so she got to everything first. so while i was raised male i’m not a man but i definitely was allowed to be messy as a boy… so i’m sure that contributes to a degree. my guess is we raised boys to be less tidy because we wanted them to focus on more traditionally masculine career paths.
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dogerwaul@pawb.socialto World News@lemmy.world•US has struck three Iranian nuclear sites, Trump says, joining Israeli air campaignEnglish24·4 days agoTrump’s getting closer to being able to launch the nuke he wanted to in his first presidency. How exciting for him.
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dogerwaul@pawb.socialto Unpopular Opinion@lemmy.world•"We're trying for a baby" is sexually graphic, and disgustingEnglish2·6 days agoi am being sincere, yes. i often try to face when i am wrong to determine why i acted the way i did. i’m glad you find it difficult to wrap your head around. that means you haven’t lived through what i have. nobody should. without going into much detail, i was bullied out of high school when my life was threatened. that’s the kind of place i grew up in.
i am fighting several demons still but thank you for your kind words.
dogerwaul@pawb.socialto Unpopular Opinion@lemmy.world•"We're trying for a baby" is sexually graphic, and disgustingEnglish3·7 days agothat is a fair point. it’s a sore subject for me, unfortunately. i may not have approached the topic in the right head space having grown up experiencing shame for simply being attracted to the same gender. i’d watch couples smile and laugh together and say, “we’re trying for a baby,” clearly implying what i was describing, and the room just reacting positively and encouragingly. you see that over and over and you can’t help but develop a negative connection to the phrase. what you said is of course true. i don’t react with disgust towards anyone, so at least i’m not making my discomfort known, but you’ve given me something to mull over and try to correct. sometimes you forget that you aren’t being attacked anymore when it’s all you’ve been used to.
dogerwaul@pawb.socialto Unpopular Opinion@lemmy.world•"We're trying for a baby" is sexually graphic, and disgustingEnglish2·7 days agowhat the fuck else would that statement imply
dogerwaul@pawb.socialto News@lemmy.world•Trump administration to shut down LGBTQ youth suicide hotline5·7 days agothis is merely an act to show his intolerance of LGBT+ issues. it has nothing to do with “all help seekers” or anything else he may claim. we are being told our youth do not matter. they are not worth investing in and their problems do not deserve federal support.
dogerwaul@pawb.socialto Unpopular Opinion@lemmy.world•"We're trying for a baby" is sexually graphic, and disgustingEnglish1·7 days agowhat are you talking about? tell me what “trying for a baby” means if not having PIV sex lol. hey buddy, you don’t know how it is to be gay in the workplace, so maybe don’t tell me what i should or shouldn’t do when my livelihood is on the line. think about your privilege here and who you are talking to. my point was this: people can make statements that IMPLY they are having sex with each other but i can’t be assured my statement of merely cuddling with my boyfriend won’t get me harassed or made to feel othered.
dogerwaul@pawb.socialto Unpopular Opinion@lemmy.world•"We're trying for a baby" is sexually graphic, and disgustingEnglish4·8 days agohere’s the thing i don’t know if many consider: being able to announce to an entire room full of strangers that you are having unprotected penetrative vaginal sex for the purpose of procreation is a unique experience only straight people are allowed to have. if i, as a gay person, merely make mention of my same-sex love life it may be seen as me “shoving it in everyone’s faces” or “inappropriate,” because the sex i have is pointless and therefore not worthy of the same kind of social acknowledgment. it’s frustrating to hear straight people say shit like “yeah we’re trying for a baby” because all i want to do is tell people i’m going to spend the weekend cuddled up with my boyfriend and i often can’t.
dogerwaul@pawb.socialto News@lemmy.world•Protester shot and killed at ‘No Kings’ rally in Utah, police say15·10 days agohonestly, it reads more like the man with the rifle pointed into a crowd and started advancing towards them. literally protecting others is not larper behavior. a larper would incorrectly identify the time and place, but it’s not as though the shooting here was unjustified; an immediate threat to multiple lives was present. now, should the peacekeeper be the one to hold a gun? it doesn’t seem like it. i am confused as to why they are not being pursued for charges but whatever, the system doesn’t make sense to me anyway.
dogerwaul@pawb.socialto News@lemmy.world•ChatGPT tells users to alert the media that it is trying to ‘break’ people: report35·10 days agopeople were easily swayed by Facebook posts to support and further a genocide in Myanmar. a sophisticated chatbot that mimics human intelligence and agency is going to do untold damage to the world. ChatGPT is predictive text. Period. Every time. It is not suddenly gaining sentience or awareness or breaking through the Matrix. people are going to listen to these LLMs because they present its information as accurate regardless of the warning saying it could not be. this shit is so worrying.
dogerwaul@pawb.socialto World News@lemmy.world•Revealed: Thousands of UK university students caught cheating using AIEnglish20·11 days agodeleted by creator
dogerwaul@pawb.socialto politics @lemmy.world•2 Minnesota lawmakers shot in apparent 'targeted' incidents, in grave condition; manhunt underway19·12 days agoi’d agree but if you read into how they discovered Hortman and her spouse it’s because police were sent to the house of Sen. Hoffman and when they arrived they found him and his wife shot which caused them to proactively check on Sen. Hortman and her husband, but when they arrived they found her and her husband dead. doesn’t make it not a cop but imitating them is far more common and this sounds politically motivated. they also found the suspect’s manifesto with a list of names in his car outside Hortman’s home.
dogerwaul@pawb.socialto politics @lemmy.world•2 Minnesota lawmakers shot in apparent 'targeted' incidents, in grave condition; manhunt underway8·12 days agoy’know it doesn’t bother me to target politicians but i just know the people who did this are fascists and i wouldn’t be surprised if this was partly in response to the ICE protests in LA and how Trump and his team of demons are categorizing the demonstrations as liberal lefty chaos. these fascists ruin the effectiveness of a good execution.
dogerwaul@pawb.socialto politics @lemmy.world•Lawsuit Challenging 2024 Election Results Moves Forward After Kamala Harris Received Zero Votes in a New York County55·14 days agoour election was, literally, stolen. Trump and his fascists have spent years calling his loss to Biden “stolen” which ultimately harmed any real attempts at calling out future election results. many statisticians are sounding the alarm bells—something is wrong. the data doesn’t lie and the voting heavily implies manipulation. there is a group investigating our election results and making their findings public. they are very concerned with what they are uncovering.
dogerwaul@pawb.socialto science@lemmy.world•Can humans spontaneously combust? The baffling cases explained.English7·17 days agono lol
dogerwaul@pawb.socialto politics @lemmy.world•The White House claims California residents are in a state "of rebellion against the authority of the Government of the United States."2·17 days agoit doesn’t matter how easy or difficult it will be it needs to be done. the alternative is unfathomable.
dogerwaul@pawb.socialto politics @lemmy.world•The White House claims California residents are in a state "of rebellion against the authority of the Government of the United States."163·18 days agoour national guard and armed forces have a decision to make: us or them. this is your time to reject fascism.
the CDC is a captured entity. they are completely compromised and should not be listened to. default to the WHO instead. there’s no regulatory capture there.