

Way to answer the question for me.
But to answer your question - that a fringe ideology would so quickly become a required one. That an ideological system would so quickly sweep and change the culture. And that those opposed would be handled so rudely.
I had always participated believing that it was about acceptance. Only to find that it was mostly full of the same people who treated homosexuals poorly looking for their new acceptable punching bag.



The TL;DR is you see what you see as counter culter, I see what I see as counter culture.
Again - we love to think of ourselves as exceptions/not like others. It feels nice and it is nice when others notice our uniqueness.