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Cake day: March 30th, 2026

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  • I’m vegetarian and I often feel like this at a restaurant.

    The only time it is a problem is in Italy, when saying “no thanks” to the waiter’s magical special of the day is an insult to his family’s honor. I don’t dare say that I’m a vegetarian in Italy though, or they will decide to skip the delicious pasta or gnocchi or risotto or pizza or whatever and bring me a plate of vegetables. 😅


  • I am never sure since I am American so know lots of Spanish from osmosis. But of course in any large European city there will be plenty of people who know enough English to help out. So yeah, he probably approached every interaction with stereotypical British arrogance and annoyed the people who would have been happy to help him otherwise. 🙈




  • I believe it.

    I worked with an Englishman who has lived in the Netherlands for more than 20 years without learning Dutch.

    We had a work trip to Madrid, and he went the weekend beforehand for a short vacation. I ran into him on Sunday night and asked him how it went. He said it was terrible, because he’s a vegetarian and couldn’t eat anything because nobody spoke English. He didn’t know what to order or how to ask if something was vegetarian. He was outraged that nobody spoke English. In Madrid. The capital of Spain. 🙈




  • All I do:

    • Run updates daily
    • Disable password logins
    • Run sshguard
    • Daily backups to a cloud and off-site host

    I think that’s it. I have my host exposed to the Internet. As far as I know, it’s fine.

    BTW, sshguard is for the IMAP and SMTP that run on the host, which do allow password logins. But it helps reduce load from brute force attacks on port 22 (which are pointless anyway).

    I’m much more worried about my son installing dodgy Minecraft mods, or my wife installing another app that she saw on TikTok. I really should put them each on a separate VLAN…