Yeahhhhh…same. Think I’ll actually log off this time, too much weird shit happening.

It may be, this stuff is definitely not indicative of the hexbear day-to-day; I think that the return of a “celebrity” poster (for what niche forum e-celebrity is worth), the American election, and the discourse about the tanks, happened to coalesce into the perfect storm. You’ve been around a while though, you probably have a good idea of the current culture and whether or not it’s worth it for you to stick around through this silliness.

Personally, the mod drama convinced me to just eat the ban amidst all this noise and dip. I never really had any personal connections or friendships with hexbear users (that didn’t already happen to be friends elsewhere anyway), and I wasn’t some “notable”. It wasn’t worth the drama and stress arguing about hurt feelings and transphobia caused by mod squabbles.

Now I feel kinda bad for airing old hexbear semi-drama. Really didn’t mean for anyone to try to make a point with it, just wanted to state my own experience :\

Appreciate the honesty Nako. Wouldn’t have expected you to fly off the handle but you know you better than I do. The whole thing is really just kinda silly and very regrettable.

My apologies then.

I aired my complaints about TC69 and her fans here but don’t get it twisted, the posts weren’t mandatory. The original issue I mentioned was a misunderstanding resulting in a dogpile of a cool person who didn’t deserve it, and the causes are not unlike what occurred in this most recent struggle session.

I think it was my comment, and no it was not a joke. You can kinda see the results of this…idk following? Reputation? here in this thread. I don’t know why a not insignificant amount of hexbears seem to believe TC69 is beyond reproach. Legit all the people I saw arguing with her and getting banned were upset about the apparent transphobia in the mod team.

My main takeaway was that I still find pervasive irony just…so…tiring. My main concern was with the misgendering of people and weird accusations. People were upset, and I was concerned. I feel like I missed the humor (which isn’t unlikely I suppose, I miss jokes all the time) when all these bits started to pop off. Just felt mocked for caring by the people who were supposedly famous for caring for their comrades. This is why we reject irony and embrace sincerity

Yeahhhhhh wth

Right, but as in this exact situation, no matter how long a person was a known poster with no such opinions, horrible shit got leveled at them when they crossed the clique culture. I can understand why someone would think it’s concern trolling, but again: known trans, autistic user asking a question. Transparent discussion is what was needed 4 years ago and not all that rabid shit, and here we see it repeated with the same culture today.

I am like, actually baffled by the ridiculous hostility this generated! Glad I already had this acct in the back pocket, guess I’m full migrating to the grad >_>

Nah, just that you’re acting like an asshole to comrades for no real reason? Seems to be the theme of this whole debacle.

Also not aware of this :|

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edit: for all the “I love my trans comrades” from y’all you’re suuuper quick to axe any trans person who questions TC huh

Eh, never really interacted with TC69 or the cult around her, except once during the post-pronouns shitstorm. A friend, who is trans, ND, long time user and friend to many, asked if the daily “I love my trans comrades” felt “a tiny bit rote/performative” and got fuckin murder-dogpiled and banned instantly. Called terf, chud, etc., by the TC69 adjacent crowd. Was pretty upsetting and she never came back even after the ban was lifted :(

Part of the reason I really don’t like the power user/celebrity culture on HB

Not sure if I saw many paths forward being presented lol, but ok. I’ll be interested to see how it shakes out…from a safe distance I think

Was a long time HB member since the subreddit days. Autistic, black, nb, so none of the accusations of cishet white male vibes applied to me - that was annoying. The flippant dismissal and joking around with this entirely irony poisoned energy with mods still doing bits and lying about shit was straight up aggravating. Ate the perma because like a few people there, I don’t think I could trust the mods/admins after that. It’s not a high stakes thing for me but that means it’s also low enough stakes that I really don’t want to deal with that attitude any more.