Ugh I hate voice training so much but after yesterday’s breakdown while trying and getting two “voice analysis” results showing “0% female, 92% male” I decided to watch some videos I’ve seen recommended, and honestly YuukoEX was the one that helped me the most because I feel like I can try to emulate her voice better than others I’ve heard.
After spending yesterday on exercises and trying to figure out various muscles around my throat, I managed this: 
It’s not much, but it’s an improvement!
Also, I’m trying eye liner today! It’s a little smudged in one or two spots, but it makes a HUGE difference in my own perception! I even took a face selfie! On purpose!! (for myself I am not nearly confident enough to post lol)
So if you need the reminder, I guess here it is!
Honestly. Pitch plays in a feminine sounding voice. But I’m sure it’s not the best indicator.
Some women have a more “male” pitch and still sound really feminine.
In my case I could with “relative” ease go with a higher pitch and I modified my resonance. And yet I don’t good. What I mean is, that’s good to do that but that’s not the only focus. There’s a prosody that is really hard to train.