Personally, I have never gotten the hype by the names “baby,” “babe,” “bae,” “honey,” it feels forced to me. I’ve seen those TikTok videos where as a joke people will address their spouses by their real names and the spouses get mad and say something like “my family and friends can call me that, but you can’t.” I’ve never gotten the seriousness of it. If we already know we’re boyfriend and girlfriend, or husband and wife, why should I have to address you by those names? Again, I’m not saying there’s anything wrong with saying them, but using real names should become more common as well.

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    3 months ago

    Wife did that at our wedding, shouted, “POGIE!” at the group of guys I was standing with and we all looked at the same time.

    (Guys were all Americans, girls all Filipinos. “Pogie” = “hottie” in Tagalog.)