get married, have babies, keep a job for 10 years.
stop getting drunk every night. Stop sleeping with random strangers. Keep a job long enough to pay me the $200 you owe me. Stop calling me at 3 AM to bail you out.
I think the first is often used as a polite way to say the second.
“Settlings Down” can mean different things.
It could mean:
I think the first is often used as a polite way to say the second.