• Maram@lemmy.world
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    20 days ago

    Not replying to messages, or replying weeks later out of politeness. If someone is interested, they’re going to reply instantly, there’s no reason to send a second text.

  • IHave69XiBucks@lemmygrad.ml
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    2 months ago

    Do we need either type of sign? I mean this is lemmy we are all adults arent we? If you are interested in someone go up, greet them politely, ask how theyre doing, say “I was wondering if you’d want to grab lunch or something together, and get to know eachother?” after a bit of casual conversation. If they say no drop it. If they are interested even if busy theyll try to find time to do it. Nobody is that busy all the time. Or if they are they cant date anyway.

    If they say yes go to lunch get to know eachother more, if you enjoy it and go out together again bring them a romantic gift of some kind to make sure you didnt miscommunicate about your intentions. Don’t play games, and guess and wonder. Be direct, but polite, and respect their decisions. If you are afraid to get rejected you’ve got 2 options. Get over it, or die alone. Always trying to compute in your head what someone else is thinking is gonna drive you crazy. Just live life.

  • xmunk@sh.itjust.works
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    2 months ago

    Everytime I walk into the room she grabs the nearest stranger and starts making out with them. My buddy said it’s because she can’t even bear to have a conversation with me but I’m pretty sure it’s just because the sight of me turns her on that much.