You know, I agree with you and I thought your opinion was valid already. This isn’t Reddit and posting and reposting the same things half a dozen times is just going to earn a block from me if it’s egregious enough.
That being said I’m absolutely laughing at this power move. Self-tying is really hard and I think you did a pretty good job.
Eh, I’m sure they’re better than you think. The rope cupping your breasts looked a bit loose so that may have been contributing to things traveling a bit more than you would have liked. Still better than anything I could do with my stupid asymmetrical shoulders 😁
Yeah, I agree that it does have that spark of a feeling of early Reddit days, but it’s also inherited a bunch of the problems with new Reddit. Mostly just that everything needs to be highly politicized or posted just to be outrage porn. I will say that the people here are definitely more genuine, passionate and interesting. I’ve got my reservations about the long-term health of NSFW here though, but that’s an entirely different discussion.
I mean, she’s not really competing against much content… I see you posted some OC but it’s in a comment. You’re not really starting your own threads/posts.
Not everyone wants to carry a community on their backs, just for the sake of it. Posting your own OC as a non-content creator tends to get your inbox flooded with DMs. If that’s not what you’re looking for then it’s actually a huge hassle.
All I’m saying is there isn’t a ton of content on here - it’s not as if anyone else that is not selling is posting much. The NSFW communities are pretty slow. Half ( or much more) of the NSFW content here on lemmy are just bots reposting stuff from Reddit. I’m not going to complain about someone actually posting content.
I’m not going to complain about someone actually posting content.
Maybe you won’t, but the Lemmy community has shown time and time again over the past year that it will take every opportunity to say shitty things about someone who posts content that doesn’t rival OF and model content quality and body standards.
I have nothing against sex work, but the reality is that it actively attempts to muscle out exhibitionism enthusiasts and amateur content and it is difficult for them to exist in the same space. In the end, the person who is financially and incentivized is always going to win out over the ones doing it for fun because it stops being fun pretty quickly.
Please don’t misconstrue my comments as telling you that you can’t have an opinion. I am also simply expressing mine. I understand everything that you’re saying, but shouldn’t it just be a rule or set of rules then?
Anyway, I won’t be commenting anymore on this. Happy to discuss in a DM or something.
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What a lengthy way to show your lack of gratitude to a legit OC poster. I mean both of you are 1 inch away from full blown incels
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You know, I agree with you and I thought your opinion was valid already. This isn’t Reddit and posting and reposting the same things half a dozen times is just going to earn a block from me if it’s egregious enough.
That being said I’m absolutely laughing at this power move. Self-tying is really hard and I think you did a pretty good job.
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Eh, I’m sure they’re better than you think. The rope cupping your breasts looked a bit loose so that may have been contributing to things traveling a bit more than you would have liked. Still better than anything I could do with my stupid asymmetrical shoulders 😁
Yeah, I agree that it does have that spark of a feeling of early Reddit days, but it’s also inherited a bunch of the problems with new Reddit. Mostly just that everything needs to be highly politicized or posted just to be outrage porn. I will say that the people here are definitely more genuine, passionate and interesting. I’ve got my reservations about the long-term health of NSFW here though, but that’s an entirely different discussion.
I mean, she’s not really competing against much content… I see you posted some OC but it’s in a comment. You’re not really starting your own threads/posts.
Not everyone wants to carry a community on their backs, just for the sake of it. Posting your own OC as a non-content creator tends to get your inbox flooded with DMs. If that’s not what you’re looking for then it’s actually a huge hassle.
All I’m saying is there isn’t a ton of content on here - it’s not as if anyone else that is not selling is posting much. The NSFW communities are pretty slow. Half ( or much more) of the NSFW content here on lemmy are just bots reposting stuff from Reddit. I’m not going to complain about someone actually posting content.
Maybe you won’t, but the Lemmy community has shown time and time again over the past year that it will take every opportunity to say shitty things about someone who posts content that doesn’t rival OF and model content quality and body standards.
I have nothing against sex work, but the reality is that it actively attempts to muscle out exhibitionism enthusiasts and amateur content and it is difficult for them to exist in the same space. In the end, the person who is financially and incentivized is always going to win out over the ones doing it for fun because it stops being fun pretty quickly.
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Please don’t misconstrue my comments as telling you that you can’t have an opinion. I am also simply expressing mine. I understand everything that you’re saying, but shouldn’t it just be a rule or set of rules then?
Anyway, I won’t be commenting anymore on this. Happy to discuss in a DM or something.
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